Many researches have been laid down to understand the relation between the mental health of a person and the circumstances that he or she faced in their child hood. In most cases, there has been a direct contact between the two : stress and anxiety. What people see of you in the first 10-20 seconds is enough for them to form an opinion about you and decide whether they want to speak to you or not. So, learn to control your anxiety and beating stress to be stress free. Stress will always be there – To hope that stress can be avoided in modern life is difficult. All of us face stress in our life.